12.31.08
Used by Older Guy (Spencer in California)
Dear jaqi,
This is my big issue!! I fell in love with a 21 year old and i knew i would do anything for him so we desited to go on and go for it (sex) and regreted it but he was there for me and said that if i didnt want to do it anymore then its fine and then he broke up with me like half a month after and now i just found out he has a 7 year old son!!! im really angry, can you help me out or like guide me or something please
oh and also like everyone knows in my art fabric thingy that i lost my virginity to him 
-i really need help, i feel used
Dear Spencer,
Being in love with someone older is tricky. Something I’ve discovered about dating is that it’s usually best to go out with someone you know or you get to know them first before even thinking about having any kind of relationship. If you try that then you’ll probably end up liking a guy who won’t just up and go or break up with you unexpectedly. You won’t end up feeling used. Also, try to stick with guys that are around your age. You will have more in common (and that will usually ensure they don’t have 7 year old kids too).
About the art fabric thingy. Just ignore them. It is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS. Usually people leave you alone about things when they see you aren’t being affected by what they say.
Good luck,
Jaqi
