01.03.09
Wants More of Friend’s Time (Emma in Grand Forks)
dear jaqi,
i need friend advice! i met this girl 4 months ago and she is actually like my best friend and i want her to feel the same way about
me.. i get really jealous when i here about what her and her best friends do and i wish i could be included.. and i wish she would stop ditching me at work.. shes a really good person and i would never hurt her but i don’t want to feel this way anymore and sometimes i don’t even want to be her friend but i still love her and she always tells me that she loves me and that i mean a lot to her but im so confused!!
what should i do! please help me!!
Dear Emma,
Ok, so you want to be included more in your new friend’s life, right? Try asking her over to your house or hang out at the mall together. Do something with her that she enjoys. Talk it out if ya want. If everything works out then yaayyy, good for you. If it doesn’t, move on, make some more friends.
Everyone has more than one best friend so spend time with some more people (and understand when she does too).
I once had a friend who didn’t always include me in things she and her other friends did, so I invited her over to my house. We got to know each other better and we ended up as better friends.
I really hope everything works out for you.
Hs&Ks,
Jaqi
