01.30.09
How do I talk to him about us? (R.J.A. in Baton Rouge)
hey how r u?….. I have this new bf but we dont really talk much. wen i c him i have to come up to him and say sumthing i havent broken up wit him bcuz i dont know if he is just shy or he wants to act lik he doent have a girlfriend. but i havent said n e thing eihter becuz im really shy. How do I talk to him about us?
That’s a difficult situation to be in. It’s confusing when you repeatedly have no success in trying to find out what a guy is thinking. Sometimes it’s easy, sometimes it’s difficult.
Maybe you should try asking him why he’s acting the way he is. He may be shy; it could be that he has trouble talking to girls. If it turns out he’s shy you could try telling him that you are too. It might make him feel better about talking to you.
Good luck with your boyfriend. 
Hs&Ks,
Jaqi
