02.01.09
I don’t know who to pick (Confused Chica in Minnesota)
hey jaqi.
ok, im so confused….. i have liked this guy for like all of my middle school life. but this year i really got to know him. i found out he is a real jerk. but whenever i drift away he somehow reels me back in. i also kinda like his friend who is funny nice smart and way cute. but i barely know him. and then there is this other guy who doesnt go to my school he is a year older than me that i like. ive liked him like since the fifth grade and in the past i know he has liked me. i dont know who to pick the three year jerk, the perfect stranger or the blast from the past older guy.
sincerly
confused chica
dear confused chica!
One thing I’ve always felt strongly about is never dating jerks. They’re no fun, they don’t treat you right, and they don’t give you many happy memories.
What I’ve done in similar situations is get to know the guys. Usually once you know them better you can easily decide which one is the guy for you. If you get to know them and still can’t decide then try picking the one you have the most in common with. Usually when you date a guy you have more in common with it’s easier to get along with him and stuff.
I’m leaning towards this "blast from the past" guy, but like I said, try getting to know the nicer two and hopefully you’ll get everything all sorted out.
Good luck.
Hs&Ks,
Jaqi
