12.14.08

No Good Boys (Ashley in Lodi)

Posted in Dating at 6:57 pm by jaqi

my friends all have boyfriends but i dont. i want one but i cant find any guys at my school that i like!!! wat should i do?

ashley
lodi, ca

I’ve had this problem multiple times. If you can’t find any guys at your school that you like, then maybe you could try looking somewhere else. Try volunteering for something, or if you go to church, then you might meet a guy there. The good thing about looking for guys in these kinds of places is that you’ll both have something in common, something to talk about. Try to remember that school is not the only place to find a good boyfriend.

Good luck,
Jaqi

12.08.08

Ask Him Out (Morgan in Anderson)

Posted in Dating at 9:14 pm by jaqi

Hey Jaqi,

I really like this guy I’ve known since the first grade. We’re both in high school and go to different schools. I see him almost every Sunday. I want to ask him out but i don’t know if i should. What do
you think I should do.

Morgan from Anderson

I think if you know him well and you’ve been friends you should definitely ask him out. It’s better to get to know someone before you start dating because the relationship will probably last longer. One thing I’ve learned in the last few years is that its dumb to go out with someone you couldn’t possibly be friends with. Otherwise what will you talk about and what would the point be?

Another thing, asking a guy out can sometimes be nervous-making, but it shows that you aren’t afraid of trying something different or new. Be yourself, there are guys out there who appreciate a girl with self-confidence.

H’s & K’s
Jaqi

11.16.08

Ready for Sex? (Name Withheld)

Posted in Dating, Sex at 9:28 am by jaqi

Jaqi,

I am 12 and my boyfriend is 15. He says that if I love him, I will have sex with him. I do love him, but I am not ready. What should I do?

Name Withheld

Dear Anon,

Hit him over the head with the nearest heavy object!! If a boy is trying to get you to have sex with him when you’re not ready and he won’t take no for an answer, dump him quick! If you don’t it will just get worse. Make sure you dump him in public (just a suggestion, some guys really don’t like the word no).

Jaqi

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